As Orthodox Christians, we pray for our departed friends and family.  This page exists to honor the memory of individuals, our members and supporters, who have fallen asleep in the Lord.  Chapters are invited to submit memorials (limited to 3-4 paragraphs please) for members, friends and supporters of A.R.O.Y. to be included on this page.  Chapter Presidents should send their submission to: design@aroy.org

Mr. John N. Tipa

John N. Tipa, father of National A.R.O.Y. President Maranda Tipa, fell asleep in the Lord at his home in South Lyon, Michigan, on Friday, February 27, 2009.  Funeral services were held at St. George Cathedral, followed by burial at St. Mary Cemetery at Vatra Românească, Grass Lake, Michigan.

He was born on February 4, 1927, in Thorpe, West Virginia, and went with his family to Romania where he lived from 1930 to 1948.  Having returned to the United States, he proudly served in the United States Army during the Korean War and then returned home to own several businesses in the Detroit area.  A long-time member of St. George Cathedral, he held several positions on the parish council there including serving as president for several years.  He was also an active member of the "Bucovina" Romanian Society in Detroit, having also held several positions with that organization including serving as president for several years.  His sincere dedication to these organizations was truly an example for others.

He is survived by his wife Mariana, daughter Maranda, son Nicholas, and sister Saveta, as well as many extended family members and loving friends.

Mr. Tipa was a personable and friendly man, who would always greet friends with a handshake and warm smile.  May God grant his servant, John, forgiveness of his sins and eternal rest with the saints.

May his memory be eternal!

 

 

Mr. Robert L. Cipu, 17th National A.R.O.Y. President

Robert L. Cipu fell asleep in the Lord at a hospital near his home in Fairfield (Bridgeport), Connecticut, on Wednesday, May 7, 2008, as a result of medical complications from Multiple Sclerosis (MS), a condition which he battled for many years.  He was 61 years old and is survived by his wife Mary Elizabeth (Betsy); children Scott, Heather & Ashley; parents; sisters; nieces & nephews; other extended family; and many friends.

Having earned degrees from the University of Connecticut, Cleveland State University and Southern Connecticut State University, he retired from a career as a High School teacher in Bridgeport.  A life-long and dedicated member of the St. Dimitrie Parish in Bridgeport, he was active in the local Mac-A.R.O.Y. Chapter, parish choir, parish council, and other parish activities.  In addition, he was active in National A.R.O.Y., including serving as the organization’s 17th National President (1972-1973).

In his later years, although physically limited due to his condition, Bob continued to offer whatever he could to encourage and support the young people of our Church.  Whether it was encouraging the local Mac-A.R.O.Y. Chapter in their efforts, or taking the time to write words of advice and encouragement to the National A.R.O.Y. President at the time, he understood the value of such actions and did so as a good and humble friend, never out of arrogance or self-importance.  His friendship will be greatly missed by many.

The Funeral Service was held at Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Church in Bridgeport (due to the construction of the new St. Dimitrie Church) on Saturday, May 10, followed by burial at Lakeview Cemetery.

May his memory be eternal!

 

 

Mr. John P. Stanitz

John P. Stanitz fell asleep in the Lord at his home near Chicago, Illinois, on Thursday, May 24, 2007, at the age of 63, following a brief illness.  The Funeral Service took place at The Falling Asleep of the Ever Virgin Mary Romanian Orthodox Church in Chicago, Illinois, with interment at the nearby Rosehill Cemetery.

John, together with his wife Kathy, had been active in his parish and the Episcopate all his life.  He served as a member of the R.O.E.A. Episcopate Council and has been an active member and  strong supporter of both the American Romanian Orthodox Youth (A.R.O.Y.) and Orthodox Brotherhood U.S.A.

Mr. Stanitz is particularly known among A.R.O.Y. members for his involvement with the Stanitz/A.R.O.Y. Scholarship which was established in 1971 by his parents, Constantin & Victoria Stanitz, in memory of their son (John's brother) William R. Stanitz, who met a premature tragic death as a young man.  Not only did John take an active interest and participate in the scholarship process each year, but he added to the fund regularly in order to ensure it will continue to offer scholarships for many years to come.

He is survived by his wife Kathleen, and brothers Nicholas and Jim together with their families.

The family has asked that those wishing to make memorial contributions do so to the William R. Stanitz/A.R.O.Y. Scholarship Fund, P.O. Box 309, Grass Lake MI 49240-0309.

May his memory be eternal!

 

 

Mrs. Dita Sandru

Dita Şandru, mother of Preoteasa Anita Lazar and grandmother of National A.R.O.Y. President John E. Lazar, fell asleep in the Lord on Saturday, January 13, 2007, following a brief illness.

Dita Şandru (nee Gruitza), known to some as “Edith”, was born to Ioan Gruiţa and Ana Crişan in Sharon, Pennsylvania on February 25, 1917.  She grew up there and graduated from Sharon High School.  Blessed with a truly angelic voice, from her earliest childhood she stood in the strana next to her father and sang for the various church services.  Though her musical potential was never completely realized, she continued to praise the God she loved with all her heart.  Dita brought joy, beauty and pride to the countless weddings, services and programs she was asked to sing for.  She sang for royalty and with her beloved family, teaching countless songs to anyone who wanted to learn.  Dita met John Şandru of Dearborn, Michigan at a convention of the Union & League of Romanian Societies in Warren OH and they were married on June 1, 1941.  They spent over 50 years together as a true example of love, dedication and commitment to one another and their loved ones.  That love and care was extended beyond their family to the many, many lonely and elderly people they took into their home and cared for when there was no where else for them to go.  Often times, Dita and John would find a way to not only care for these people, but also pay their final expenses when they finally left this world.  They lived in Dearborn until relocating to Akron/Fairlawn OH in late 1980 to be with their daughter and family.  In October of 1990, she laid her dear husband to eternal rest, and in the fall of 1991, returned to Detroit due to the relocation of her family.

Though born in and a proud citizen of the United States, from the time of her childhood, Dita was always active in “all things Romanian”.  She spoke, read and wrote the language fluently, being educated at home and at the local Romanian school programs.  Throughout her life she was literally immersed in her heritage and represented the Romanian community in many capacities for decades, even being chosen as a “lady-in-waiting” when Princess Ileana of Romania came to Detroit, and they formed a friendship for many years to come.  She was a dedicated member of her Church, and a devoted supporter of the Romanian Orthodox Episcopate of America.

In the 1950’s, they owned and operated “Anita’s Coffee Shop”, a corner diner on Michigan Ave. (Dearborn MI) named after her daughter.  She retired from Ford Motor Company (Rawsonville MI plant) where she worked on the assembly line making carburetors.  Later, she worked with her husband, John, selling real estate.  In 1992 she began working again, this time as a greeter at K-Mart (Southfield MI) for several years, then at Kroger (Southfield MI) for some 7 years until August, 2006.  Some of the clubs and organizations she dedicated time to included: Ford U.A.W.; the Ladies Auxiliaries (Reuniunea Femeilor) of Dearborn, Akron and Detroit; choir member & cantor; Soroptimist Society; the Romanian-American Business Women’s Association; Mărăşeşti Society of the Union & League of Romanian Societies; Fairlawn City Women’s Club; officer of the Union & League Ladies Auxiliary; guest host & performer of the Detroit Romanian Radio Hour, and others too numerous to mention.  No doubt her greatest joy in life was her beloved family.  Her only daughter, Anita Cornelia, married Laurence Cornel Lazar in 1971.  Soon after, the couple took on the life-long commitment of service to the Orthodox Church through ordination into the Holy Priesthood.  Dita and John stood by their children and supported them in everything as best they could.  Nothing made them happier then when their grandchildren came into this world.  They were, and will always be “Buni’s angels”.

Dita was the oldest of four children.  Sadly, she said farewell to her brother, John, and sister-in-law, Aurelia Gruitza, brother, Cornel Gruitza, brother-in-law, John Onila, sister-in-law, Sophie (nee Şandru) Meyers, as well as her Naşi and many Finii, all of whom preceded her in falling asleep in the Lord.  Now she looks down from heaven on her beloved family – her only daughter (Preoteasa) Anita and son-in-law (V. Rev. Fr.) Laurence Lazar, with her 3 grandchildren: John Eugene, Nicholas Laurence and Ana Valeriana; her only sister, Victoria (Tory) Onila (IN) and sister-in-law, Virginia Gruitza (OH); her cuscră, (Dna. Preoteasa) Eleonora Lazăr; her great niece, Pia (Ioan) Nanu with their family; 11 dear nieces and nephews, many great nieces and nephews, and her great-great nieces and nephews; her Fina Margaret Homana & her 3 children; as well as her more distant relatives still living in Romania.  We weep now not for her, but for ourselves, that through sorrow will come joy.  We are left to remember her, and thank her for the gifts she gave to us and to this world.

May God forgive her and give her rest!
Dumnezeu sa’o ierte!

 

 

Mr. John J. Streza Jr.

John J. Streza Jr., father of Psa. Mary Lynn Pac-Urar and grandfather of National Board Member Michael Pac-Urar and former National Board Member Alexandra Pac-Urar, fell asleep in the Lord in Canton, Ohio, on Thursday, January 4, 2007 at the age of 97.  Funeral services were held on Monday, January 8, 2007, at St. George Romanian Orthodox Church in Canton, Ohio, with burial at Forest Hill Cemetery there.

John died as peacefully as he lived gently, surrounded by loving family at his bedside.   He was born on March 12, 1909, in Dridif, Romania, to John J. and Rozeta Streza.  He had worked 20 years for L.T.V. Company of Canton retiring in 1977 as a core maker.  He was the oldest living member, past trustee and council member of St. George Romanian Orthodox Church in Canton, and was a member of the Romanian Fraternal Society of Homestead, Pennsylavania.

He is survived by his wife of 71 years, the former Mary Tiarog; two daughters and sons-in-law, Pauline and Dave Witmer of Canton, Mary Lynn and Fr. Ian Pac-Urar of Fairlawn; son and daughter-in-law, John D. and Carol Streza of Georgetown, TX; grandchildren, Renee Streza, Wendy and Greg Gaspard, Alexandra and Michael Pac-Urar; great-grandson, Donovan Gaspard; one sister, Jeri Cragnolin of New York. Preceded in death by three sisters, Veta Nicoleanu, Georgeta Young, Aurelia Bastea; and one brother, Gheorghe Streza.

He was truly a gentle man.  He was never known to raise his voice in anger.  One of those present at his passing said of John, "He was a man with a grateful heart".  He asked little of the world or of those who knew him, but he gave all that he could give, both of his labor and of his resources.  His life was marked by love, by kindness and by generosity.  His great loves were his wife, his family, his church and his garden.  May God grant his servant, John, forgiveness of his sins and eternal rest with the saints.

May his memory be eternal!

 

 

Mr. Cornell Cotosman, 7th National A.R.O.Y. President

On Tuesday, December 12, 2006, Cornell Cotosman, long-time, faithful member of St. Mary Romanian Orthodox Church in Chicago, Illinois, fell asleep in the Lord after a brief illness at the age of 76.

Cornell’s life was a celebration of service to God, the Church and to others.  He was a veteran of the United States Navy and a member of Amvets Post 109.  He worked for Milwaukee Railroad and the International Communications Union as an Auditor.  He was a member of: Speranta Emigrantul of Chicago, the Addison Post District Seniors Club and a volunteer for the Addison Police Department.

His church activities started when he was a youngster in Chicago where he became involved locally and nationally, serving as the 7th National President of The American Romanian Orthodox Youth (A.R.O.Y.) and participating in the Pan-Orthodox organization, Conference of Eastern Orthodox Youth Leaders of America (C.E.O.Y.L.A.).  He was also a member of the Orthodox Brotherhood U.S.A.  He was a member of St. Mary’s Choir and volunteered in many capacities in the parish.  In recent years, Cornell was the friendly man at the candle stand who would make visitors feel welcome and take a real interest in people he had not previously met, gathering all the information he could about them so that he could connect them to the local parish and the diocese.  As a delegate to the Episcopate’s Annual Church Congress, he also was called upon many times to serve on the Episcopate Council and gave of his time and talents.

Cornell is survived by his beloved wife of 50 years, Sandra Helen (nee Oprea) Cotosman, son Phillip John and granddaughter Courtney.

May his memory be eternal!

* adapted from the R.O.E.A. Website

 

Mr. Gordon Galbincea

Mr. Gordon Galbincea, father of Psa. Mary Ellen Rosco and grandfather of 34th National A.R.O.Y. President Tom Rosco, fell asleep in the Lord on 17 August 2006 at the age of 89 years, following a lengthy illness.

Born and raised in the St. Mary parish in Cleveland, Mr. Galbincea was one of a few young men who, at the request of Bishop POLICARP (Morusca), spent the entire summer of 1938 helping His Grace to renovate the newly purchased Vatra Românească into a suitable residence.  He was active in church life from a young age, serving on the parish council, singing in the parish choir and as a cantor, participating in Cleveland’s inter-Orthodox activities, and was one of several members of the organizing committee (1949-1950) for The American Romanian Orthodox Youth (A.R.O.Y.) which was founded in 1950.  After being transferred by work to North Carolina in 1959, he and his family continued to support the St. Mary parish and the Episcopate, often attending events in Cleveland and at Vatra Românească, including working at the summer camp programs there.  Following the death of his wife, Mary, in 1989, he returned to Cleveland to be near his family and resumed his activity in the parish there as much as he was able.

Funeral Services were held at St. Mary Cathedral in Cleveland, Ohio, with burial at Sunset Memorial Park in suburban Cleveland.

Mr. Galbincea leaves behind his son Gordon and family (Houston TX) and daughter Psa. Mary Ellen and family (Dearborn Heights MI), his sisters Mary and Betty in Cleveland, and numerous other family and friends.

May his memory be eternal!

* adapted from the R.O.E.A. Website

 

Mr. Dan Calin

Mr. Dan Calin, father of Psa. Paula Treff and grandfather of National A.R.O.Y. Board Member Alexandra Treff,  fell asleep in the Lord suddenly at his home near Chicago, Illinois, on Saturday morning, May 27, 2006.

Mr. & Mrs. Calin have been long-time members of St. May Church in Chicago where they were not only very active in the life of the parish, but also in the life of The Romanian Orthodox Episcopate of America and its National Auxiliaries - A.R.O.Y., A.R.F.O.R.A. and the Orthodox Brotherhood U.S.A.  Dan was also a dedicated member of United States Veterans organizations, participating regularly in various ceremonies and volunteering at the Veterans hospitals.

The funeral service was celebrated on Wednesday, May 31, at Vatra Românească, with burial in the St. Mary Cemetery there.

We offer our condolences to his wife Virginia, along with the entire Calin and Treff family, and ask that everyone keep them in your prayers.

May his memory be eternal!

 

 

Rev. Fr. John Limbeson, 1st National A.R.O.Y. President & Past National A.R.O.Y. Spiritual Advisor

We sadly announce that Reverend Father John Limbeson fell asleep in the Lord on Friday, 19 August 2005, at his home in Laguna Woods, California, following a long heart ailment.

Fr. John was born on 22 March 1922, in Cleveland, Ohio.  He received his primary and secondary education in Cleveland and went on to Case Institute of Technology (now Case Western Reserve University) in the same city.  It was during that time he entered the United States Army in 1943, during World War II, attaining the rank of Lieutenant in the Corps of Engineers.  He obtained an honorable discharge in 1946 and returned to his studies, graduating in 1948.  He went on to complete further studies in later years at California State University.  Having completed the Late Vocations Program and St. Stephen Course of Studies in Orthodox Theology (1984-87), he was ordained to into the Holy Diaconate in 1980 by +Archbishop VALERIAN (Trifa) and served the Holy Trinity Parish in Los Angeles, California (1980-85).  In 1985, he was ordained into the Holy Priesthood by Bishop NATHANIEL (Popp) and temporarily assigned to St. Anne Mission in Pomona, California.  Fr. John was then assigned as parish priest of Sts. Constantine & Helen Church in Indianapolis, Indiana (1993-97).  Upon retirement from active parish assignment in 1997, Fr. John and Psa. Betty reunited with their family in California.

Fr. Limbeson was active in the life of the Episcopate from an early age, being a charter member of the American Romanian Orthodox Youth (A.R.O.Y.) and its first National President (1950-54).  Additionally, he served on the Episcopate Council, holding the position of Treasurer (1995-99), and was appointed as National Spiritual Advisor of the A.R.O.Y. (1993-95).  He was also involved with various pan-Orthodox lay and clergy organizations throughout his life.

He is survived by his wife of almost 59 years, Preoteasa Betty, son John, daughter Merry Ann (Mrs Serge) Loukianoff, and grandchildren: Natalie, Katherine & Alexandra.

May Fr. John's memory be eternal!

* adapted from the R.O.E.A. Website

 

Miss Natalia Reed-Lopez

Our sincere condolences are expressed to the family of Mr. & Mrs. Michael Reed (former Vatra camper, counselor & instructor), along with their entire family, on the untimely death of their daughter, Natalia Reed-Lopez (age 13), as the result of a tragic biking/auto accident while on summer vacation in Spain, August 2004, where she visited her relatives every summer and loved very much.

She, along with her family, resided in Ann Arbor, Michigan, and was a member of the parish family of St. George Cathedral in Southfield, Michigan.  She excelled greatly in both academics and sports.  She spoke several languages and had recently earned the distinction to be one of two student ambassadors to Ann Arbor's sister city in Japan in Fall 2004.

Funeral services were held at The Nativity of the Ever Virgin Mary Chapel at Vatra Românească, with burial in the St. Mary Cemetery there.  More than 300 family and friends came to the Vatra to say goodbye to Natalia.

May her memory be eternal!

 

 

V. Rev. Fr. Richard Grabowski, Past National A.R.O.Y. Spiritual Advisor

The Very Reverend Father Richard Grabowski, Chairman of the R.O.E.A. Department of Christian Assistance, fell asleep in the Lord on Thursday, May 6, 2004, following a recent illness.  Funeral services were held at Holy Resurrection Church in Warren, Ohio, and The Falling Asleep of the Ever Virgin Mary Cathedral in Cleveland, Ohio, with burial following in the St. Mary Cemetery at Vatra Românească.

Father Richard was born on March 21, 1924, in Ramnicul-Valcea, Romania.  After receiving his education in Romania, he and his wife immigrated to the United States in 1952 and eventually became American citizens.  Ordained to the priesthood in 1962 by +Archbishop VALERIAN (Trifa), he was assigned as assistant priest of The Falling Asleep of the Ever Virgin Mary Church in Saint Paul, Minnesota (1962-1963); parish priest of The Descent of the Holy Spirit Church in Merrillville, Indiana (1963-1971), Holy Trinity Church in Los Angeles, California (1971-1982), and The Falling Asleep of the Ever Virgin Mary Church in Cleveland, Ohio (1982-1989); and administrator of Sts. Michael & Gabriel Church in Fort Wayne, Indiana (1968-1970) and Holy Resurrection Church in Oakland, California (1971-1979).  After his retirement from active parish assignment, he served as the U.S. Coordinator and Chairman of the R.O.E.A. Department of Christian Assistance (1990-present), especially for the program "Help for Romania" (1990-1997) for which he faithfully coordinated and oversaw the distribution of millions of dollars worth of aid to the people of Romania.  Additionally, he was very active in the life of the Episcopate having served on the Episcopate Council and Spiritual Consistory, as Spiritual Advisor of the American Romanian Orthodox Youth (A.R.O.Y) and Association of Romanian Orthodox Ladies Auxiliaries (A.R.F.O.R.A.) national auxiliary organizations, as Instructor and Director of the Vatra Religious Education Courses, and numerous other activities in the life of the Church.

He is survived by his wife, Preoteasa Hildegard, and children: Michael, George, John, Richard, Corina (Phillips), Paul, and Stephen, along with their families.

May Fr. Richard's memory be eternal!

* adapted from the R.O.E.A. Website

 

Rev. Fr. Peter Lipovan

On the night of 24 July 2002, after having battled with cancer, the Reverend Father Peter Lipovan found his much-awaited relief.  He fell asleep in the Lord at home, surrounded by his three devoted children, his son-in-law Mark and his lovely grand-daughter, Ann Elizabeth.

Fr. Peter was born on 6 August 1919, in Batania-Cenad, Timis, Romania.  There he studied at the Theological Academy in Arad (1939-1941).  A refugee in Austria and Argentina he came to the U.S.A. in 1963.  He completed his studies at St. Vladimir Seminary (1963-1966) and then was ordained by the late Archbishop VALERIAN in 1964.  Married to Preoteasa Ann (Billie), they were blessed with three children: Mary Christina, Emily Ann Pauline (30th National A.R.O.Y. President) and Theodore Philip.

Endowed with a very operatic voice, Fr. Peter served in several parishes: Niles & Salem OH and Erie PA between 1966-67; Saint Louis MO (1967-68); and Philadelphia PA (1968-75).  In 1975 he was released to the Albanian Archdiocese for St. Nicholas parish in Connecticut (1975-78).  In 1979 he was received back into the Romanian Episcopate and served on an as-needed basis in the parishes of the Ohio-Western Pennsylvania Deanery.  After 1991, when Psa. Anne fell asleep in the Lord, Fr. Peter lived in Cleveland sharing the love of all his children.  In 1994-95 he temporarily served in Vancouver BC.

Since 1995, when he retired, he was attached to St. Mary Cathedral, Cleveland OH, where he continued to sing in the George Enescu Choir and assist in the services.  His greatest joy in his retirement was to see his grand-daughter Anne Elizabeth.  Last fall, along with Mark, Ted, Emily and Annie, he was blessed to travel to Deva, Romania, to see his brother, Archpriest George, for the last time.  He also leaves his sister, Elena Tihoi, in Philadelphia PA.  His brothers Peter and Teodor preceded him in death, back in Romania.

A hard worker all his life, Fr. Peter Lipovan will always be remembered as man who loved to read, tell stories, make incursions into the long history of Christianity and his nation, enjoyed singing and respected and loved everyone around him.  He loved his children and was loved by them until his last breath.  He maintained his humor even in his greatest suffering.  Upon receiving Holy Communion the day before, he still found the strength to respond with confidence to the greeting "Christ Is Risen!", answering vigorously: "Truly He Is Risen!"  The Funeral Service was led by His Eminence, Archbishop NATHANIEL, assisted by a sobor of local and visiting clergy, at the St. Mary Cathedral.  Fr. Peter was then laid to rest next to his beloved Psa. Anne at a local cemetery in Cleveland.

May God grant Fr. Peter eternal rest and give him the joy of heaven!  Memory Eternal!

* adapted from the Weekly Bulletin of St. Mary Cathedral, Cleveland OH

 

Mr. Nicholas A. Tekushan, 2nd National A.R.O.Y. President

Nicholas A. Tekushan, an active member of St. Mary Cathedral of Cleveland and National A.R.OY. President in 1955, passed away on May 25, 2002.  He was born in Youngstown, Ohio, in 1919, the son of Nicolae and Finica Tecusan, prominent early Romanian and church leaders.  He is survived by his wife, Virginia, two sons, Mark and Terrance, a sister, Fannie Filkins, brother-in-law Lou Renghea and a number of other relatives.  An architect by trade, Mr. Tekushan helped in the building programs of St. Mary Cathedral and St. Helena Byzantine-Rite Romanian Catholic Church in Cleveland.

Married to Virginia, whose parents were also active in the pioneer Romanian life, the couple was involved in the church life of St. Mary's, being members for many years of the George Enescu Choir and holding other positions.  Nick Tekushan was the 2nd National President of the A.R.O.Y. and one of the founders of The Council of Eastern Orthodox Youth Leaders in America (C.E.O.Y.L.A.).  Nationally and locally, he encouraged inter-Orthodox activities, being a member of the Inter-Orthodox Committee.  He pursued his church activities intently, faithfully and modestly, setting an example for other members, National A.R.O.Y. will miss Nick, but will remember him for his dedication.

May his memory be eternal!

* written by V. Rev. Fr. Vasile Hategan

 

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